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goCatgo's avatar

My wife had about 4 miscarriages before she gave birth to a live one.

The doctors were of no help. TBF in those days they probably didn't know much.

Even ultra sound was not around for our first. She eventually had 3. We planned on 2.

But we didn't know much either I guess. We quit while we were ahead.

So for every pregnancy, all we ever hoped for was a live baby. Maybe not perfect, but at least alive.

We were ready for anything. All 3 were 99.99 % perfect.

Yes, I know, TMI. But I do not understand those parents at all. Never will.

I only share this now because last week I got a "Number One Great Grandfather T-shirt"

First great grandkid coming in August.

So nervous again. And again, just asking for it to be alive.

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Jennifer A's avatar

As a mom, I don't even understand the idea that a dead kid is better than a trans kid, which is the choice these "parents" (using that term loosely) are making. I guess for those people, love is just ego and narcissism, because if they actually loved their child, gender affirming care is such a fucking no-brainer it's not even funny.

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